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debm55

(61,883 posts)
Wed May 13, 2026, 10:36 PM May 13

I am sad and nervous. I went to the Breast Cancer Center this afternoon for my six month check up for a lump in my right

breast. It is now a mass. Tech took results to the doctor. She came in and said that not only do I have the mass but now more are appearing. I scheduled a biopsy for June 5. I talked to my husband Rich and DU friend John. They both helped me. Rich is finishing his treatment for Malignant Prostate cancer. and came in the room when the Doctor came in. John and I talked and he really helped me.You guys are my family and I can't talked to my mother. She needs a ride for my sister to get her 6 month check up for her "cancer" She keeps telling me that my sister has cancer in her uterus , which she never had as it was a polyp. She was given a hysterectomy. But she has a stage 4 tumor in it. I so wish I could tell her that I am scared. I have told the stories of my youth to repeat again. You are my family. I hope now that I got that free. I can sleep better tonight. Love you all, Deb.❤️ I just needed someone to talk to.

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I am sad and nervous. I went to the Breast Cancer Center this afternoon for my six month check up for a lump in my right (Original Post) debm55 May 13 OP
I won't let you fall into the fears. I have good feelings coming your way and nothing that hlthe2b May 13 #1
Thank you hlthe2b. For being here. Love, deb. debm55 May 13 #3
Hey, sweetie, the thing that I love most about DU is what one wise poster once said: calimary May 13 #2
thank you my dear calimary. Love, deb debm55 May 13 #4
Please believe me when I say don't fret..stay positive and that's good medicine, too. I have an idea of Deuxcents May 13 #5
Thank you for being my family, Deuxcents. debm55 May 14 #48
Deb please try to take a breath. Diamond_Dog May 13 #6
I'm gonna jump in here buzzycrumbhunger May 13 #7
Thank you, buzzycrumbhunger for your wise words. debm55 May 14 #59
Thank you, my dear Diamond_Dog. debm55 May 14 #49
Wishing you a positive outcome on your biopsy. Marie Marie May 13 #8
I will, Thank you, Marie Marie. debm55 May 14 #50
Holding you and Rich in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome. niyad May 13 #9
Thank you for your kind words for Rich and me. niyad. debm55 May 14 #60
My mother had bilateral breast cancer lumps. She had lumpectomy, radiation, and then took tamoxifen. She did not die surfered May 13 #10
Thank you very much, my friend. debm55 May 14 #61
🙏 surfered May 14 #65
I'm sending you healing vibes and positive thoughts! Nt spooky3 May 13 #11
Thank you very much, spooky3. debm55 May 14 #62
I am sending you hugs and all the best energy to surround you! MLAA May 13 #12
Dear MLAA. sending hugs to you also. debm55 May 14 #63
... WestMichRad May 13 #13
Back at you WestMichRad. debm55 May 14 #64
Dear dear dearest Deb, You bring so much empathy, fun, joy and memory KitFox May 13 #14
Thank you my dear friend, KitFox,❤️ debm55 May 14 #66
Dear Deb.....May the next days land gently for you Ninga May 13 #15
Thank you, very much, Ninga. debm55 May 14 #67
Oh sweet Deb. I'm sending you hugs and healing vibes sueh May 13 #16
Thank you very much, sueh. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #71
Of course you are sad and nervous. It's a normal reaction, and you did the right thing by talking about it. hamsterjill May 13 #17
Thank you very much, my friend, for your kind words. debm55 May 14 #72
Dear deb....we got you irisblue May 14 #18
Thank you very much, irisblue. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #73
You have our affection and support dear debm55. alwaysinasnit May 14 #19
You are sweet my friend, alwaysinasnit. debm55 May 14 #74
My dog Diggory and I are sending you calm and peace..... ColoringFool May 14 #20
Hey, ColoringFool! calimary May 14 #23
Bless you , ColoringFool. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #75
Oh debm55 I'm so sorry Figarosmom May 14 #21
Thank you very much for your kind words, Figarosmom. I will try. debm55 May 14 #76
We're all going to be here with you Debbie, JMCKUSICK May 14 #22
Love you , John. Thank you for your post. debm55 May 14 #77
Oh Deb. summer_in_TX May 14 #24
Thank you very much, summer_in_TX. Rich and I appreciate your prayers❤️. debm55 May 14 #78
good wishes for a positive outcome dear debm55 msongs May 14 #25
Thank you my dear msongs. debm55 May 14 #97
Sending you love, hugs and healing thoughts deb. sheshe2 May 14 #26
Thank you my sweet sheshe2❤️ debm55 May 14 #98
Healing vibes to you stage left May 14 #27
Thank you for your warm thoughts. stage left.❤️ debm55 May 14 #99
I'm holding you in my heart dear person. Hope22 May 14 #28
Thank you very much for your warm post, Hope22.❤️ debm55 May 14 #100
One day at a time, dear Deb.. Permanut May 14 #29
Thank you for sharing with me. Permanut. debm55 May 14 #101
Waiting Is The Worst DET May 14 #30
Your very kind words have me in tears---happy tears. Thank you so much DET. Love, Deb. debm55 May 14 #102
I have sent my plea to The Universe for your good health. You will not be alone LoisB May 14 #31
Thank you my friend, LoisB. Love, deb. debm55 May 14 #103
Dear sweet, wonderful Deb MIButterfly May 14 #32
Thank you my dear MiButterfly. Love, deb.❤️ And--------- debm55 May 14 #106
I don't even know where to begin. murielm99 May 14 #33
Thank you so much, murielm99, Bless you❤️ debm55 May 15 #121
I hope for negative results and a positive outcome. Buddyzbuddy May 14 #34
Thank you very much, Buddyzbuddy debm55 May 15 #118
Sending hugs for you and Rich. Whatever the livetohike May 14 #35
Thank you very much, livetohhike.❤️ debm55 May 14 #38
You're strong. zanana1 May 14 #36
Thank you very much, zanana1 debm55 May 14 #37
I go in every year - TBF May 14 #39
I use to go every year. My maternal aunt and 2 cousins died from breast cancer. I go every 6 months. Thank you TBF with debm55 May 15 #119
Stay strong, debm66 - We're here for you. n/t TygrBright May 14 #40
Thank you very much for sharing that with me, TygrBright.❤️ debm55 May 15 #120
I have a sister-in-law who is a ten year survivor of Her2 breast cancer. NNadir May 14 #41
Thank you very much, NNadir. I can do it. debm55 May 15 #122
Wishing you all the best of life as you and your husband struggle together. I am so sorry for you. Fla Dem May 14 #42
Thank you very much, Fla Dem. debm55 May 14 #53
Please take care and stay strong. We are all here for you. Sending positive thoughts.❤️ lucca18 May 14 #43
Thank you very much, lucca18 debm55 May 14 #46
My best wishes Dear_Prudence May 14 #44
Thank you very much, Dear_Prudence. debm55 May 14 #45
Sending you love and peace.❤️ PittBlue May 14 #47
Thank you very much, PittBlue. We have BlueCross/ Blue Shield , Federal Employees. so it's AHN debm55 May 14 #51
For you debm55... pdxflyboy May 14 #52
Thank you very much, pdxflyboy. debm55 May 14 #54
Please take a moment and take a deep breath, Deb Niagara May 14 #55
Thank you very much for your kind words, Niagara. debm55 May 14 #57
Very Sorry to hear your news debm55. Many of my wife's family know they are at risk after BRCA test. IA8IT May 14 #56
Thank you very much for sharing with us, IA8IT. On my maternal side I had an aunt and two cousins die from breast debm55 May 14 #58
Hang in there! I know this must be scary for you. Ocelot II May 14 #68
Thank you very much, my friend Ocelot II. ❤️ debm55 May 14 #81
Deb, you have your husband, your doctors, and us at DU Polly Hennessey May 14 #69
Thank you my dear friend, Polly Hennessey. Love, deb. debm55 May 14 #96
Deb, you can lean on us ANY TIME.. some_of_us_are_sane May 14 #70
Thank you my friend , some_of_us_are_sane.Thank you for your love, support and prayers. debm55 May 14 #94
Glad we were here! Take care dear deb. You are in my thoughts tonight... CTyankee May 14 #79
Thank you very much, my dear, CTyankee.❤️ debm55 May 14 #82
... Delphinus May 14 #80
Love you. debm55 May 14 #84
I've been dealing with cancer for the last eight years, some days it's difficult to stay positive, I wish you the best. sop May 14 #83
Thank you dear sop. And I will keep you in my prayers tonight. Love, Deb. debm55 May 14 #95
May you always find and/or receive the love and energy you need LuvLoogie May 14 #85
Thank you my sweet friend, LuvLoogie. debm55 May 14 #92
Thank you my friend, LuvLoogie. I will send a prayer to you tonight debm55 May 14 #93
A lot to deal with! BeneteauBum May 14 #86
Thank you my friend for your kind words.BeneteauBum. debm55 May 14 #88
The thing that's important is that you HAVE been TexasBushwhacker May 14 #87
Yes, they flagged it was abnormal last summer.Instead of yearly tests I have been tested every six months. It threw me debm55 May 14 #90
Yes. I lost my mother to breast cancer TexasBushwhacker May 15 #111
I'm thinking about you, Deb55... Trueblue Texan May 14 #89
Thank you for your wish words my friend. Trueblue Texan. debm55 May 14 #91
The Pittsburgh hospitals are wonderful, gab13by13 May 14 #104
Thank you gab13by13. debm55 May 15 #117
You're up to the fight. You have plenty enough people in your corner. Push through. marble falls May 14 #105
Thank you for your kind words, marble falls. debm55 May 15 #116
Sending good vibes.. BlueWaveNeverEnd May 14 #107
Thank you my friend.❤️ debm55 May 15 #115
You will get through this DelMar dem May 14 #108
Yes, it is the waiting. Thank you DelMar dem. debm55 May 15 #114
Sending you my best wishes u4ic May 15 #109
Thank you very much, u4ic.❤️ debm55 May 15 #113
deb, True Dough May 15 #110
Thank you very much, True Dough❤️ debm55 May 15 #112
I'm sending good vibes malaise May 15 #123
Thank you very much, malaise. debm55 May 15 #124

hlthe2b

(114,743 posts)
1. I won't let you fall into the fears. I have good feelings coming your way and nothing that
Wed May 13, 2026, 10:45 PM
May 13

you have written means you can't get through this with ultimately good results. Breath deeply and don't let yourself dwell on the fears of the unknown. Yes, of course they are there, but move them way to the back of your mind and take everything as the most positive they can be. Every step is one toward resolution. Day by day. Positive thoughts will steer your mind and yes, be good for your body too!

Now go get some sleep knowing we are all going to be thinking of you with best healing thoughts!

calimary

(90,901 posts)
2. Hey, sweetie, the thing that I love most about DU is what one wise poster once said:
Wed May 13, 2026, 10:48 PM
May 13

“Someone’s always here.”

I believe it was our longtime-beloved Skittles who first made that observation. And it’s TRUE! ANY hour of day OR night. SOMEBODY’S gonna be here to help you get through even the worst of times, thereby making sure you don’t feel completely alone or abandoned. Inevitably.

Just one more reason why I love this place. Always here when and if you need it (and even when you don’t!).

Deuxcents

(27,761 posts)
5. Please believe me when I say don't fret..stay positive and that's good medicine, too. I have an idea of
Wed May 13, 2026, 10:59 PM
May 13

How old you are so this could be any one of a few things but we always think the worst. My issue was fibroids and they can be very similar to the touch but only tests can be sure and the earlier the better. Don’t worry about any one else’s problems, appointments or issues..this is about YOU and only YOU. Let us know your journey to good health and keep positive and deep breaths. 🌺

Diamond_Dog

(41,167 posts)
6. Deb please try to take a breath.
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:00 PM
May 13

I have been in your shoes and I can just imagine how you’re feeling.

My oncologist always tells me that medical science improves so fast even in the last 5 years there are new treatments, drugs, that weren’t around before. And, if you have to have surgery, you have to have it. It’s not the end of the world. I have been through it! And that was 19 years ago and I’m still here! You will be okay. I will send you good thoughts and strength to deal. Here’s a hug….

buzzycrumbhunger

(2,189 posts)
7. I'm gonna jump in here
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:19 PM
May 13

You’ve been monitored to keep an eye out for this. This is nothing like winding up in the hospital because something horrible happened and they discovered something that’s been growing for years and is too major to deal with. They’ll obviously want to get it out, they’ll probably put you on tamoxifen or something, and you’ll cope.

You’re not alone, obviously—look at the people here rushing to comfort you! Just stay positive and expect the best. I’ve worked in healthcare for a couple decades and have seen far more successes than failures.

Getting in line for the hugs. You’ve got this!

Marie Marie

(11,556 posts)
8. Wishing you a positive outcome on your biopsy.
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:20 PM
May 13

Until and after, you know how we are all here for you to talk, scream or cry to. We never close and we care.

niyad

(134,113 posts)
9. Holding you and Rich in love and light. Vibes for best possible outcome.
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:21 PM
May 13

Your DU family is here for you, so lean as hard as you need.

surfered

(14,393 posts)
10. My mother had bilateral breast cancer lumps. She had lumpectomy, radiation, and then took tamoxifen. She did not die
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:25 PM
May 13

from cancer.

Listen to your doctors. Stay strong.

🙏

KitFox

(599 posts)
14. Dear dear dearest Deb, You bring so much empathy, fun, joy and memory
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:53 PM
May 13

lane traveling to all of us, that there is no way in the world that someone with your heart and soul won’t beat the ever lovin’ hell out of this! We love you and are sending truckloads of healing and caring energy to you, dear heart. Pop on and reach out any hour of the day or night and we will hear you. Please keep us posted. We care so so much🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

Ninga

(9,036 posts)
15. Dear Deb.....May the next days land gently for you
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:55 PM
May 13

and that your prognosis is hopeful. Holding good thoughts and prayers for you and your medical team. Sending a bushel full of hugs.

sueh

(1,975 posts)
16. Oh sweet Deb. I'm sending you hugs and healing vibes
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:57 PM
May 13

as you go through this. Scary, I know from experience.Everybody here has your back. We love you, Deb.

hamsterjill

(17,777 posts)
17. Of course you are sad and nervous. It's a normal reaction, and you did the right thing by talking about it.
Wed May 13, 2026, 11:59 PM
May 13

Seems a lot is going on with you and your husband. I can imagine that you are overwhelmed. Talking about it can most times put things into a better perspective.

It would be unnatural NOT to be frightened by this. But it was mentioned up thread that staying positive is actually good medicine. I'm a firm believer in that. Easier said than done, right? Well, yes. But it's something that we all need to work on and learn to do better. So, I hope that you will take this time between now and your biopsy to surround yourself with love and care and stories of women with positive outcomes. I hope you have confidence in your doctors and know that they are there to help you and create the best outcome for you.

I will be praying for you, as is my personal practice. As has been said here already several times, you come here and talk any time you feel the need. Come here and feel some DU love.

Deb, I wish you calm and peace and a good night's sleep, and I want a long-term positive outcome for you! Take care of yourself and keep us updated.

ColoringFool

(1,135 posts)
20. My dog Diggory and I are sending you calm and peace.....
Thu May 14, 2026, 12:14 AM
May 14

Diggory isn't a real dog, but he gives me a sense of that calm and peace when I am ill and fearful, as I live alone.

🙏

calimary

(90,901 posts)
23. Hey, ColoringFool!
Thu May 14, 2026, 12:49 AM
May 14

Your imagination can REALLY help, in the “coping department”. I’ve found the wisdom and kindness and the company you can enjoy here are SUPER helpful when you need moral support - for ANY reason.

Btw, glad you’re here, too!

Figarosmom

(13,576 posts)
21. Oh debm55 I'm so sorry
Thu May 14, 2026, 12:34 AM
May 14

Don't let it affect you spirit. Stay positive. Enjoy each moment you can. And for goodness sakes don't jump right to the worst possible outcome in your mind before you even know what you are dealing with.

Hope22

(4,899 posts)
28. I'm holding you in my heart dear person.
Thu May 14, 2026, 01:20 AM
May 14

Love and healing thoughts go out to you. 💗💐💗🙏🏼🥰

Permanut

(8,589 posts)
29. One day at a time, dear Deb..
Thu May 14, 2026, 01:47 AM
May 14

We happen to know that you can handle any challenge that is put in front of you.

And just for the record, my wife is a 15 year survivor of breast cancer, free and clear. That's just one survivor story, but there are a lot stories like hers.

DET

(2,609 posts)
30. Waiting Is The Worst
Thu May 14, 2026, 02:06 AM
May 14

Deb, I know that it’s going to be hard waiting for the biopsy and your mind will go to some really scary places. I have to think that your doctor would have expedited the biopsy if they were seriously concerned. I was told in my twenties that I had a breast mole that had all the signs of cancer and was given a biopsy that same day. Turned out to be nothing.

You’re still coping with your husband’s advanced PC, but by now you know that even stage 4 PC is manageable if not curable. I used to completely freak out waiting for the results of my husband’s every three months tests, especially if the results were late. After six years, I’ve learned to calm down and anticipate good results.

It’s completely normal to be nervous at this point, but it helps to find enjoyable distractions that take your mind off of things until you have some definitive answers. Maybe indulge in some things or activities that you normally wouldn’t. I wish you the best and please keep us informed.

debm55

(61,883 posts)
102. Your very kind words have me in tears---happy tears. Thank you so much DET. Love, Deb.
Thu May 14, 2026, 10:21 PM
May 14

LoisB

(13,539 posts)
31. I have sent my plea to The Universe for your good health. You will not be alone
Thu May 14, 2026, 02:51 AM
May 14

through this trial. We are all here for you.

MIButterfly

(3,173 posts)
32. Dear sweet, wonderful Deb
Thu May 14, 2026, 02:59 AM
May 14

I am holding you in my heart and in my thoughts. Please know that your DU family, myself included, is here for you any time, day or night. Lean on us as much as you want. We've got your back, always! You bring so much joy with your posts. I look forward to your "polls" (or should I say questions? Sorry, I don't know what to call them; it's late) and smile every time I see a new one!

I hope your biopsy turns out to be nothing serious. If it is something, we'll all be behind you, come what may. You are loved and cherished here. Please don't ever forget it. You will never be alone as long as you have us!

Much love,
MIButterfly



murielm99

(33,097 posts)
33. I don't even know where to begin.
Thu May 14, 2026, 04:31 AM
May 14

Cancer sucks. No matter what form it takes, it sucks.

I am glad you came here to get the support of your DU family. Like the others, I will be here for you.

livetohike

(24,440 posts)
35. Sending hugs for you and Rich. Whatever the
Thu May 14, 2026, 06:53 AM
May 14

diagnosis is, know that we are here to listen , comfort you or celebrate positive news.

I had a breast cancer scare a few months ago and the diagnosis was something benign that I never heard of! We are nearly the same age. It is amazing what things can appear now.

zanana1

(6,537 posts)
36. You're strong.
Thu May 14, 2026, 07:11 AM
May 14

I know this because I've been following your postings. I'll say a prayer for you on June 5. I hope you have what I have. I've had lumps in my breasts for years. Harmless. Your family is here for you.

TBF

(37,275 posts)
39. I go in every year -
Thu May 14, 2026, 10:02 AM
May 14

my grandmother had breast cancer, but they were able to treat that. It was the damage to her heart from polio when she was young that was the real problem. Still scary, but there are treatments and we will be there with you! Thank you for sharing it with us, it makes things easier to carry if you let others in.

debm55

(61,883 posts)
119. I use to go every year. My maternal aunt and 2 cousins died from breast cancer. I go every 6 months. Thank you TBF with
Fri May 15, 2026, 11:44 AM
May 15

me❤️

NNadir

(38,590 posts)
41. I have a sister-in-law who is a ten year survivor of Her2 breast cancer.
Thu May 14, 2026, 10:17 AM
May 14

It was terrifying at the time, but she got by with a lumpectomy, radiation, a SERM type drug, and regular monitoring.

There is hope.

I saw her last week. She's fine.

Hang in there. All of us at DU wish our friend a successful outcome.

Fla Dem

(27,792 posts)
42. Wishing you all the best of life as you and your husband struggle together. I am so sorry for you.
Thu May 14, 2026, 12:23 PM
May 14

I am glad you have each other.

lucca18

(1,471 posts)
43. Please take care and stay strong. We are all here for you. Sending positive thoughts.❤️
Thu May 14, 2026, 12:24 PM
May 14

Dear_Prudence

(1,196 posts)
44. My best wishes
Thu May 14, 2026, 04:53 PM
May 14

For you and Rich. Say "yes" to self-care and sharing with Rich. When folks make demands on you or try to burden you with their expectations, remember that "No" is a complete sentence. You are in my heart, debm55.

PittBlue

(4,834 posts)
47. Sending you love and peace.❤️
Thu May 14, 2026, 05:04 PM
May 14

You have a good support system here. All the best to you…I hope you are dealing with UPMC.

debm55

(61,883 posts)
51. Thank you very much, PittBlue. We have BlueCross/ Blue Shield , Federal Employees. so it's AHN
Thu May 14, 2026, 05:31 PM
May 14

Niagara

(12,160 posts)
55. Please take a moment and take a deep breath, Deb
Thu May 14, 2026, 05:51 PM
May 14

I can understand how frightened you are.


Please be kind to yourself. Your DU family is here for you.


I'm sending you love and positive vibrations your way, Debbie. ❤️

IA8IT

(6,459 posts)
56. Very Sorry to hear your news debm55. Many of my wife's family know they are at risk after BRCA test.
Thu May 14, 2026, 05:57 PM
May 14

A few have had surgery after testing positive others increase testing frequency.

BRCA gene test looks for DNA changes that increase the risk of breast cancer and ovarian cancer

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/brca-gene-test/about/pac-20384815

The BRCA gene test looks for DNA changes that increase the risk of breast cancer and ovarian cancer. It uses a sample of blood or saliva to look for the changes.

DNA is the genetic material inside cells. It holds the instructions, called genes, that tell cells what to do. Harmful changes in the genes can increase the risk of cancer. Healthcare professionals sometimes call these gene changes variants or mutations.

The BRCA gene test looks for changes in the BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes. Other genes also can increase the risk of breast and ovarian cancer. Some genetic tests look for these other genes in addition to the BRCA genes. A genetic test that looks at many different genes is called a multigene panel test.

A healthcare professional can help you decide whether genetic testing is right for you. The gene changes that increase the risk of breast and ovarian cancer are passed from parents to children. So the health professional considers your personal and family history of cancer when making a recommendation. Genetic testing isn't routinely done on people with an average risk of breast and ovarian cancer.

debm55

(61,883 posts)
58. Thank you very much for sharing with us, IA8IT. On my maternal side I had an aunt and two cousins die from breast
Thu May 14, 2026, 06:44 PM
May 14

cancer.

Ocelot II

(131,305 posts)
68. Hang in there! I know this must be scary for you.
Thu May 14, 2026, 07:22 PM
May 14

Take care of yourself, and done't hesitate to come here for support. We care about you!

Polly Hennessey

(8,981 posts)
69. Deb, you have your husband, your doctors, and us at DU
Thu May 14, 2026, 07:31 PM
May 14

“Trust yourself. You’ve survived a lot, and you will survive this.”

We are here for you, now and always. 💕👍

some_of_us_are_sane

(3,650 posts)
70. Deb, you can lean on us ANY TIME..
Thu May 14, 2026, 07:44 PM
May 14
We LOVE you and support you, always. Sending a sincere prayer 'to the man upstairs'. Hugs!

sop

(19,399 posts)
83. I've been dealing with cancer for the last eight years, some days it's difficult to stay positive, I wish you the best.
Thu May 14, 2026, 08:16 PM
May 14

LuvLoogie

(8,937 posts)
85. May you always find and/or receive the love and energy you need
Thu May 14, 2026, 08:35 PM
May 14

to overcome and get through all the days ahead.

BeneteauBum

(797 posts)
86. A lot to deal with!
Thu May 14, 2026, 09:17 PM
May 14

Here’s my bit of positivity that things will turn out well. Chin up young lady! You’ll beat this!

Peace ☮️

TexasBushwhacker

(21,294 posts)
87. The thing that's important is that you HAVE been
Thu May 14, 2026, 09:38 PM
May 14

checking up on it, so if it turns out to be cancer, you caught it early. Catching it early is your best defense.

debm55

(61,883 posts)
90. Yes, they flagged it was abnormal last summer.Instead of yearly tests I have been tested every six months. It threw me
Thu May 14, 2026, 09:45 PM
May 14

for a loop to be told it was a mass. Thank you for your kind words, TexasBushwhacker.

TexasBushwhacker

(21,294 posts)
111. Yes. I lost my mother to breast cancer
Fri May 15, 2026, 12:49 AM
May 15

She was diagnosed at age 60, with Stage 2 (lymph nodes). I asked when she had last had a mammogram and she said "5 years". She had a lumpectomy, chemo and radiation and was in remission for a couple of years

But then it came back in her bones, so I knew it was treatable, but not curable. She died 2 months before her 70th birthday. She had a sister who was 5 years older who made it to 96!

I can't help but wonder how long she would have lived if they caught it earlier. I'm 69 now and I've gotten my boobs smashed annually, without fail. I always expect them to find cancer and I had to have biopsies in both breasts in 2012. But so far, no cancer. Early detection is our best protection, but they have so many more treatment options than they did just 20 years ago. I still look at wigs every year though - LOL.

Trueblue Texan

(4,621 posts)
89. I'm thinking about you, Deb55...
Thu May 14, 2026, 09:43 PM
May 14

Wishing you the best outcome and sending healing vibes and hoping you can manage to stay away from toxic family situations.

gab13by13

(32,826 posts)
104. The Pittsburgh hospitals are wonderful,
Thu May 14, 2026, 10:28 PM
May 14

They cured my cancer and fixed my A-fib. Sending my positive vibes your way.

DelMar dem

(77 posts)
108. You will get through this
Thu May 14, 2026, 11:43 PM
May 14

one step at a time. The waiting between the steps is the worst. Wishing you all the best as you move forward.

u4ic

(17,137 posts)
109. Sending you my best wishes
Fri May 15, 2026, 12:04 AM
May 15

It may or may not be cancer. If it is, know many women have recovered. You have lots of love and support, and that's crucial.

True Dough

(27,359 posts)
110. deb,
Fri May 15, 2026, 12:17 AM
May 15

you're a treasure.

Yes, we are your family. We're all pulling for you.

Take care.

❤️

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