New name, no photos: Gisle Pelicot removes all trace of her husband
It was November 2011, and Gisèle Pelicot was sleeping too much.
She spent most of her weekends in a slumber. She was annoyed, because during the week she worked hard as a supply chain manager, and her time off was precious.
Yet she could not seem to stay awake, often drifting off without even realising it and waking hours later with no memory of having gone to bed.
Despite this, Gisèle, 58, was happy. She counted herself lucky to have her husband of 38 years, Dominique, by her side. Now their three children Caroline, David and Florian were grown, the couple were planning to soon retire and move to Mazan, a village of 6,000 people in France's idyllic southern region of Provence, where Mr Pelicot could go on bike rides and she could take Lancôme, their French bulldog, on long walks.
She had loved Dominique since they met in the early 1970s. "When I saw that young man in a blue jumper it was love at first sight," Gisèle would reflect, much later. They both had complicated family histories marked by loss and trauma, and had found peace with one another. Their four decades together had hit rough patches - frequent financial troubles and her affair with a colleague in the mid-1980s but they had made it through.
BBC: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvgx7xy77ydo`
Irish_Dem
(60,136 posts)This is hard to read without abuse PTSD or a sexual trauma history.
Granny Blue
(39 posts)probably occurring world wide. Protect your daughters, sisters, mothers, neices, granddaughters, friends! Make sure they know and question the effects of this abuse, and always have an exit plan.