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TheEnlightenedBiglet

(44 posts)
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 05:06 AM 13 hrs ago

I got some communication issues, I guess. I'm 18

I have a hard time speaking the exact point on my mind whenever I'm confronted by people louder than me (in person). I often times find myself making points that are totally true and that I stand by, but then someone will ask me a question completely unrelated and this genuinely burns me out every time. I need tips on navigating situations like this, please. Any helps!

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I got some communication issues, I guess. I'm 18 (Original Post) TheEnlightenedBiglet 13 hrs ago OP
In order to continue this discussion, we must stay cachukis 10 hrs ago #1
I'll make sure to keep that in mind! TheEnlightenedBiglet 9 hrs ago #2
And if you can't respond appropriately it is either cachukis 9 hrs ago #3
"That's an interesting question and I'd love to talk Phoenix61 8 hrs ago #4

cachukis

(3,863 posts)
1. In order to continue this discussion, we must stay
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 08:06 AM
10 hrs ago

on topic. Your response is irrelevant. Repeat your point and ask if it needs clarity.

 
2. I'll make sure to keep that in mind!
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 08:15 AM
9 hrs ago

I'm still developing my journalistic integrity, so you have no idea how much a small comment like that helps me 😭 thank you for your time!

cachukis

(3,863 posts)
3. And if you can't respond appropriately it is either
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 08:21 AM
9 hrs ago

because you can't or will be exposed if you do.
Whataboutism is a key to MAGAts existence. They live on Earth II and leaving that bubble is difficult.
You will waste a lot of time convincing someone whose identity relies on living a falsehood.
You may have to be more subtle with some interviews, as face off insults close doors.

Phoenix61

(18,811 posts)
4. "That's an interesting question and I'd love to talk
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 09:27 AM
8 hrs ago

with you more on that but I’d like to hear your views on (return to topic).
Praise makes people feel good and saying the question is interesting lets them infer you think they are smart. It’s also a set up for another interview.

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