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orangecrush

(28,696 posts)
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 07:54 AM Mar 2025

Person who called 911 for deceased former US attorney Jessica Aber 'refused' to perform CPR

The person who called 911 for Jessica Aber, the 43-year-old former federal prosecutor who was found dead in her home in Virginia on Saturday morning, refused to perform CPR, it’s been reported.

First responders were called to Aber’s home in Alexandria at 9:18 am local time after receiving a report about an unresponsive woman.

Officials are yet to announce a cause of death, but a family friend told Fox News Sunday that Aber suffered from a medical condition. "Police believe the death was the result of a longstanding medical issue," the source said.

According to a dispatch audio obtained by NBC News, the caller refused to administer CPR on the attorney. “Any additional units... for the cardiac arrest. 916 Beverly Drive," the dispatcher is heard saying.

"That’ll be for a 46-year-old female found in bed unresponsive, not breathing. The caller has refused CPR.”

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/former-us-attorney-jessica-aber-death-b2720493.html

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Person who called 911 for deceased former US attorney Jessica Aber 'refused' to perform CPR (Original Post) orangecrush Mar 2025 OP
She was only 43, as noted farther down in linked article EYESORE 9001 Mar 2025 #1
Young people die from unknown heart conditions sadly all the time underpants Mar 2025 #18
It's still not that common, statistically EYESORE 9001 Mar 2025 #19
Agree. It's fairly rare and should investigated. COULD be nothing, of course, but acting like still-prayin4rain Mar 2025 #52
Did you see the list of people she prosecuted? gab13by13 Mar 2025 #31
I had a near fatal heart attack Mossfern Mar 2025 #32
Glad you made it. underpants Mar 2025 #41
A friend of mine died from a heart attack - for 13 minutes Ms. Toad Mar 2025 #53
Too sad. Passages Mar 2025 #2
itself a sad statement on our education system rampartd Mar 2025 #6
Legal system too. Some people fear legal consequences even if person lives, but with injuries, etc. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2025 #27
That was my take too canetoad Mar 2025 #66
This has nothing to do with schools or "educational system." valleyrogue Mar 2025 #39
There's CPR that doesn't require giving rescue breathes EdmondDantes_ Mar 2025 #48
Pretty sure 911 woukd've walked them through the process over the phone SheltieLover Mar 2025 #10
Good point! Passages Mar 2025 #11
Thx SheltieLover Mar 2025 #12
Refused or unable exboyfil Mar 2025 #3
Do you know "Stayin' Alive"? TommyT139 Mar 2025 #17
It also works with EYESORE 9001 Mar 2025 #20
There are many reasons I can think of why someone wouldn't do it. Renew Deal Mar 2025 #62
I mean....if someone's dead, CPR isn't going to help. Lay people can certianly make that observation. WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2025 #4
Yes, and no. Ms. Toad Mar 2025 #61
If she had a medical condition as reported, the caller may have been following her wishes ms liberty Mar 2025 #5
that's right eShirl Mar 2025 #7
No new news pbrmn Mar 2025 #8
Do you have some new information that should be reported? onenote Mar 2025 #38
This is a misunderstanding of what the 911 operator said. yardwork Mar 2025 #9
Could be there were visible signs of trauma nobody could survive? SheltieLover Mar 2025 #13
Or perhaps the body was cold. If she was obviously dead and had been for some time, what's the point? Midnight Writer Mar 2025 #14
Also possibility. SheltieLover Mar 2025 #15
During my EMT training EYESORE 9001 Mar 2025 #21
Likely true, legally, but if someone has a hole in their chest a semi SheltieLover Mar 2025 #22
Yeah, I'd have to take a pass on that myself EYESORE 9001 Mar 2025 #24
It's just weird if they truly believe she died of natural causes, SheltieLover Mar 2025 #25
Poison was my first thought upon reading the headline EYESORE 9001 Mar 2025 #26
I hope so, too, byt if ruskies were involved, SheltieLover Mar 2025 #28
As an RN I've declared LOTS of people dead. nt Maru Kitteh Mar 2025 #50
I do it all the time... littlemissmartypants Mar 2025 #64
Who made the 911 call???? Blue_Roses Mar 2025 #16
In many places, as a matter of law, the identity of 911 callers is protected as a privacy matter onenote Mar 2025 #37
Makes sense Blue_Roses Mar 2025 #56
Maybe finding a corpse would be traumatic... radicalleft Mar 2025 #23
No thank you. That's what 911 is for. Hellbound Hellhound Mar 2025 #29
Immunocompromised? Tim S Mar 2025 #30
Not everybody can perform CPR. valleyrogue Mar 2025 #40
I found my husband dead. Ilsa Mar 2025 #33
How sad that must have been. 3catwoman3 Mar 2025 #35
2 years. Still hurts, makes Ilsa Mar 2025 #43
2years is not very long, especially if your marriage... 3catwoman3 Mar 2025 #45
Thank you for your kind words. Yes, Ilsa Mar 2025 #63
Sorry for your loss orangecrush Mar 2025 #36
Or someone could be concerned about a contagious disease. 3catwoman3 Mar 2025 #34
We were taught CPR in high-school BlueKota Mar 2025 #42
I'm reserving judgment on this one. Firstly, many people don't know Mike 03 Mar 2025 #44
An Unsupported Myth Is... ProfessorGAC Mar 2025 #46
I am not going to rush to judgement pinkstarburst Mar 2025 #47
There can be MANY reasons for refusing CPR, I don't see a reason listed Maru Kitteh Mar 2025 #49
The last one orangecrush Mar 2025 #54
Maybe it was obvious she'd been dead awhile. I wouldn't want to do CPR on a dead person either. Vinca Mar 2025 #51
CPR can be done with hands only. ecstatic Mar 2025 #55
Not surprised if the person who called 911 was untrained or panic-stricken. Jedi Guy Mar 2025 #57
The headline is a bit inflammatory Renew Deal Mar 2025 #58
They are designed like that so when someone sees the headline they will click the link and they can present ads. n/t Jacson6 Mar 2025 #60
Maybe she Rebl2 Mar 2025 #59
It is not that easy to do by yourself Meowmee Mar 2025 #65

EYESORE 9001

(29,467 posts)
1. She was only 43, as noted farther down in linked article
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:00 AM
Mar 2025

I hope the autopsy includes tests for traces of poison.

underpants

(195,100 posts)
18. Young people die from unknown heart conditions sadly all the time
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 09:53 AM
Mar 2025

Hank Gathers was 23
There was a young woman in this area who finished a 1/2 marathon and died. She was 17 at the time.

EYESORE 9001

(29,467 posts)
19. It's still not that common, statistically
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:23 AM
Mar 2025

And I still hope they check carefully for strange substances.

still-prayin4rain

(525 posts)
52. Agree. It's fairly rare and should investigated. COULD be nothing, of course, but acting like
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 02:32 PM
Mar 2025

slim, presumably healthy 43 year old females simply drop dead "all the time," is silly.

gab13by13

(31,342 posts)
31. Did you see the list of people she prosecuted?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:04 AM
Mar 2025

I'm waiting for the autopsy, and then I won't be sure.

Mossfern

(4,631 posts)
32. I had a near fatal heart attack
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:08 AM
Mar 2025

when I was 46. It does happen.

I'm being tested for a genetic clotting disorder tomorrow - not for me, I've been on rat poison(Warfarin) for 30 years. The testing is to make sure that if it is genetic that my children need to be tested as well as my grand kids.

underpants

(195,100 posts)
41. Glad you made it.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 12:01 PM
Mar 2025

My now passed father in law had his first at 36. Of course he was smoking about 2 packs of unfiltered Pall Malls a day and walking atop coal trains all day.

Ms. Toad

(38,345 posts)
53. A friend of mine died from a heart attack - for 13 minutes
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 02:34 PM
Mar 2025

While playing tennis. CPR was performed during that time until an ambulance arrived with a defibrillator and they were able to revive him. He was older (60-ish), but was in good health by all measures which are normally checked at annual exams.

His cholesterol was within normal ranges for all components routinely tested for. But routine cholesterol scanning is a blunt tool and relies on averages to catch the more routine types of troublesome cholesterol. So he and his doctors were completely unaware he was dangerously close to death from atherosclerosis. He had high apo(b) and lp(a), subclasses of ldl which is known to be highly associated with atherosclerosis (and heart attacks). The predisposition to elevated apo(b) adn lp(a) is genetic.

rampartd

(3,921 posts)
6. itself a sad statement on our education system
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:16 AM
Mar 2025

cpr classes have been available for many years

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
27. Legal system too. Some people fear legal consequences even if person lives, but with injuries, etc. . . . nt
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:41 AM
Mar 2025

valleyrogue

(2,603 posts)
39. This has nothing to do with schools or "educational system."
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:55 AM
Mar 2025

CPR classes are available for the community. Most people aren't required to take them.

There are people who cannot perform CPR without some devices to help, and those aren't always available.

I for one cannot perform CPR without a special mouthpiece because of my breathing capacity.

exboyfil

(18,343 posts)
3. Refused or unable
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:06 AM
Mar 2025

I hate to admit that I have never been trained. Not sure what I would do under similar circumstances.

TommyT139

(2,155 posts)
17. Do you know "Stayin' Alive"?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 09:00 AM
Mar 2025

If so, you know almost enough to do CPR.

"Advice given in an episode of “The Office” is accurate. Administering CPR at the same beat as the hit song by The Bee Gees could help save a life."

https://www.verifythis.com/article/news/verify/health-verify/cpr-tempo-stayin-alive-bee-gees/536-c98a6ca5-f748-42ce-a86c-6e80a810aa90

Here's a Red Cross video (under 2 minutes):



And here's the clip from The Office:
?si=AhlXvXlwssddxbqa

EYESORE 9001

(29,467 posts)
20. It also works with
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:25 AM
Mar 2025
Another One Bites the Dust, although bystanders don’t have much of a sense of humor

Renew Deal

(84,709 posts)
62. There are many reasons I can think of why someone wouldn't do it.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 09:03 PM
Mar 2025

#1, the person might have been very obviously dead.

They could also be germ phobic, untrained, scared, panicked, have their own medical condition, and probably many more reasons. Ultimately, people in CPR classes are told that they are not obligated to get involved.

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,450 posts)
4. I mean....if someone's dead, CPR isn't going to help. Lay people can certianly make that observation.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:07 AM
Mar 2025

Ms. Toad

(38,345 posts)
61. Yes, and no.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 07:38 PM
Mar 2025

A friend of mine was dead for 13 minutes. CPR was started immediately and was continued for the entire time until ambulance arrived with a defibrillator, which was used to restart his heart. That was 16 years ago.

He was extremely lucky in that he collapsed in front of someone who knew CPR and was willing to perform it. We obviously don't know the status of Ms. Aber - it may be that she was obviously dead (and had been so long enough that circulating blood while waiting for EMS to arrive). But there are degrees of dead - and performing CPR does no harm if the person is already dead.

Ironically, I just had this conversation with my daughter. A co-worker at Amazon died on the floor a little over a week ago. It wasn't on her shift - but the reports she heard were that no one performed CPR at all, or quicky enough. She's had CPR training - but long enough ago that she doesn't remember much about it - and would have been afraid to start CPR because they might not actually need it. I walked her through both CPR (no need to do breathing, under the current thinking), presumed consent, the good Samaritan law, and use of a defibrillator (yes, she would need to open/remove their shirt), and how to take charge if the safety team isn't immediately available. She didn't know where the defibrillators were - so she was going to check the next day. It shook her.

ms liberty

(10,998 posts)
5. If she had a medical condition as reported, the caller may have been following her wishes
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:09 AM
Mar 2025

This is the first article to give this much info.

eShirl

(20,093 posts)
7. that's right
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:18 AM
Mar 2025

thinking of getting "DO NOT RESUSCITATE" tatooed in big bold letters across my chest someday, if the Big C comes back

pbrmn

(2 posts)
8. No new news
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:19 AM
Mar 2025

Its amazing how quickly this story moved out of the news. I googled her name just now and the latest on this story was 20 hours old. Have we already moved away from this high profile womans untimely death?

onenote

(45,993 posts)
38. Do you have some new information that should be reported?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:55 AM
Mar 2025

Please share what you think the media is withholding.

yardwork

(68,987 posts)
9. This is a misunderstanding of what the 911 operator said.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:19 AM
Mar 2025

"The caller has refused CPR" is shorthand. It doesn't mean the same as "the caller refused to do CPR."

We font know know enough to conclude that.

SheltieLover

(76,993 posts)
13. Could be there were visible signs of trauma nobody could survive?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:34 AM
Mar 2025

I hope not, but let's face it, if she had a gunshot wound that destroyed her head or chest, who woukd agree to do cpr?

Midnight Writer

(25,156 posts)
14. Or perhaps the body was cold. If she was obviously dead and had been for some time, what's the point?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:40 AM
Mar 2025

SheltieLover

(76,993 posts)
15. Also possibility.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 08:48 AM
Mar 2025

I find it strange ghey referred to the person as "the caller."

Sort of smacks of suspicious circumstances they are not willing to admit to.

Poor woman. She fought the goid fight during her all too short life.

EYESORE 9001

(29,467 posts)
21. During my EMT training
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:29 AM
Mar 2025

I was instructed that only an M.D. could make a pronouncement of death, with a sole exception: full decapitation of the victim. Whether that’s gospel or lore, I can’t say.

SheltieLover

(76,993 posts)
22. Likely true, legally, but if someone has a hole in their chest a semi
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:33 AM
Mar 2025

Could drive through...

EYESORE 9001

(29,467 posts)
24. Yeah, I'd have to take a pass on that myself
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:34 AM
Mar 2025

I think any reasonable observer would agree with that assessment.

SheltieLover

(76,993 posts)
25. It's just weird if they truly believe she died of natural causes,
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:38 AM
Mar 2025

Why not just say a friend or her mother or whoever found her unresponsive?

All their shoveling likely amounts to trying to cover up a pile of shit imo.

She prosecuted a lot of ruskies... poison?

EYESORE 9001

(29,467 posts)
26. Poison was my first thought upon reading the headline
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:40 AM
Mar 2025

I hope someone is looking into her activities and encounters in the day preceding.

SheltieLover

(76,993 posts)
28. I hope so, too, byt if ruskies were involved,
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:41 AM
Mar 2025

This DoJ would pin a medal on the perp.

Poison was my first thought, too.

littlemissmartypants

(31,744 posts)
64. I do it all the time...
Wed Mar 26, 2025, 02:32 AM
Mar 2025

But mine are more like "you're dead to me" pronouncements. Not unlike using the phrase, "you're fired" and it's very liberating.

onenote

(45,993 posts)
37. In many places, as a matter of law, the identity of 911 callers is protected as a privacy matter
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:52 AM
Mar 2025

This occurred in Virginia, where the law provides for the redaction of personal, medical, or financial information from 911 call records to protect safety or privacy.

I know that isn't going to satisfy the tin foilers on this thread, but there it is.

radicalleft

(567 posts)
23. Maybe finding a corpse would be traumatic...
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:34 AM
Mar 2025

Not something ones comes across every day. There is no law that says one has to perform/provide EM services.

29. No thank you. That's what 911 is for.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:59 AM
Mar 2025

Regardless of the state of the body, too many frivolous lawsuits targeting people trying to save a life. Suing for broken ribs, suing for trauma, suing for "Violation of suicidal intent", suing for sexual harassment and suing for Gods only know what else.

Hard pass on laying hands on a stranger. Let EMS deal with it.

Tim S

(55 posts)
30. Immunocompromised?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:02 AM
Mar 2025

I was once a caregiver for someone who was immunocompromised. If I called 911 for a body that was as not breathing while still being responsible for someone who is immunocompromised, I may have refused to perform CPR too.

Don’t be so quick to judge until you know all the details. Unless the caller is used to dealing with dead bodies, it was likely a traumatic event for them. If anything, I feel sympathy for them.

Ilsa

(63,883 posts)
33. I found my husband dead.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:08 AM
Mar 2025

I didn't perform CPR. His body was cold and levidity had set in.

Neither CPR or use of an AED will work.

Ilsa

(63,883 posts)
43. 2 years. Still hurts, makes
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 12:32 PM
Mar 2025

my heart ache. I had to see a cardiologist about 4 months after the event because the ECG at my physical was slightly "off." Takotsubo cardiomyopathy is a real thing. Fortunztely, I got my heartbreak under control.

3catwoman3

(28,658 posts)
45. 2years is not very long, especially if your marriage...
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 01:27 PM
Mar 2025

…was a long one. I just attended a celebration of life for a much beloved congregation member of the very small Unitarian Universalist church I belong to. An 89 year old woman, who married her husband right before finishing high school. They were married for 72 years. He is 93, and just as beloved by all of us as his wife was.

My major loss thus far in my life was the way-too-early death of my brother, my only sibling, in a scuba diving adventure gone awry. He was only 23. I was 26. I’m now 73. The passage of time eventually softens the sharp edges of initial grief, but you are forever changed.

I hope there are still some things in your life that give you joy.

Ilsa

(63,883 posts)
63. Thank you for your kind words. Yes,
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:15 PM
Mar 2025

we had been together over 30 years. I still have much to clean up, clear up, finalize. I haven't figured out how I'm going to rebuild my life without him.

3catwoman3

(28,658 posts)
34. Or someone could be concerned about a contagious disease.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:08 AM
Mar 2025

If I didn’t have a mouth shield, I would be very reluctant to make mouth-to-mouth contact with someone whose health status was unknown to me.

BlueKota

(5,060 posts)
42. We were taught CPR in high-school
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 12:12 PM
Mar 2025

health class, but that was 45 years ago. All I remember is counting one one thousand, 2 one thousand. And if another person is doing team CPR with you, at some point, you say, "next time switch on three."

Mike 03

(18,690 posts)
44. I'm reserving judgment on this one. Firstly, many people don't know
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 12:42 PM
Mar 2025

that CPR no longer requires mouth-to-mouth contact. Secondly, seeing a person with no traumatic injuries this young has died, one immediately suspects opiates (i.e., Fentanyl) and even microscopic amounts of that can kill you. Even hand contact with a corpse might be dangerous.

And this person had just been fired or resigned in disgust, so I would think of suicide (or death of despair--ie drugs). All the more reason, if you don't have gloves or know the new updated CPR procedure, to hesitate to perform it.

So I want to know the reasons before I judge this person's inaction.

ProfessorGAC

(75,888 posts)
46. An Unsupported Myth Is...
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 01:37 PM
Mar 2025

...that short term contact with fentanyl or an affected victim can cause OD & death.

Experts told CBS News that touching fentanyl powder will not cause an overdose. In powder form, the way it's almost always found in the illicit drug supply, the drug cannot absorb through the skin, said Ryan Marino,a medical toxicologist, emergency physician and addiction medicine specialist at the Cleveland Medical Center. Just being near the substance also won't cause an overdose.

"Fentanyl as a dry powder is not going to cross through your skin. It's the same reason you can touch sugar without your blood sugar going up," said Marino. "Solids don't cross through your skin."

Major medical groups have also issued statements about the risk — or lack thereof — from touching fentanyl. In 2017, the American College of Medical Toxicology and the American Academy of Clinical Toxicology issued a joint position statement stating that "incidental dermal absorption is unlikely to cause opioid toxicity." One video, created by harm reductionist Chad Sabora, shows Sabora holding fentanyl and not having any adverse effects as he tests the substance.

Of course, not everybody knows this, so the concern persists.

https://www.acmt.net/news/you-cant-overdose-on-fentanyl-just-by-touching-it-heres-what-experts-say/

pinkstarburst

(1,878 posts)
47. I am not going to rush to judgement
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 01:44 PM
Mar 2025

They probably didn't have a face shield or breathing apparatus on hand. If they knew the victim had prosecuted lots of high profile Russians, they may have had good reason to fear she'd been poisoned and good reason to fear that doing CPR, which requires mouth to mouth contact, could bring them into contact with the poison and kill them, too. They may have worried the poison could be transferred from skin to skin contact, too, which would make them fearful of chest compressions if they didn't have latex gloves on hand.

Maru Kitteh

(31,290 posts)
49. There can be MANY reasons for refusing CPR, I don't see a reason listed
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 01:50 PM
Mar 2025

but I can think of several, easily.

Body is already cold.
Vomitus still present around both the mouth and nose and no PPE or ambu bag available..
Unsure if lethal medication/poison is present.

Vinca

(53,392 posts)
51. Maybe it was obvious she'd been dead awhile. I wouldn't want to do CPR on a dead person either.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 02:03 PM
Mar 2025

ecstatic

(35,013 posts)
55. CPR can be done with hands only.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 05:15 PM
Mar 2025

Chest compressions. There's no longer a mouth to mouth requirement.

Jedi Guy

(3,426 posts)
57. Not surprised if the person who called 911 was untrained or panic-stricken.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 07:04 PM
Mar 2025

Even properly administered CPR can break ribs and/or the sternum. That's a lesser consideration if someone is in the throes of cardiac arrest, of course, since bones heal and death is somewhat permanent. The caller may well have been concerned about the possibility of unintentionally injuring Ms. Aber further.

We also don't know the caller's relation, if any, to Ms. Aber. If they were "freaking out" or otherwise too panicked to focus, I can understand not having the mental wherewithal required to attempt CPR. In a highly emotionally charged situation, some people have a tendency to freeze.

I took CPR training last fall (drew the short straw in my office) and our instructor discussed why people might refuse to help. Part of the training is instructing those who haven't been trained or asking them to assist (calling first responders, handling first aid materials, helping to reposition the injured, etc.) and he told us not to be shocked if people flatly refuse to get involved.

I think this information has induced some folks to jump to conclusions. It certainly seems to have spurred some conspiracy theories...

Jacson6

(1,782 posts)
60. They are designed like that so when someone sees the headline they will click the link and they can present ads. n/t
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 07:33 PM
Mar 2025

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
65. It is not that easy to do by yourself
Wed Mar 26, 2025, 02:35 AM
Mar 2025

Maybe they didn't know how or thought it was too late. I had training for that for cpr but I don't remember how to do it now, it was years ago. Also have you ever seen a full code? Yes it can save someone but it takes a whole room full of people to do it.

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