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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAlthough I tried to avoid it I did see a picture of Melanie
at the scene of today's crime and she appears to have decided to wear a Buick hubcap for a hat. Must have been for the big old Roadmaster model because they had a deep dish effect and this one is plopped on her head and is just about lower than her eyes. It's either a Buick or an enameled soup pot from a cookware set. But the real hot dish is about Bezos and his fiancee. She showed up in an outfit that is apparently a pair of pants, a white lace bra for the top and a jacket to match the pants. How classy and dignified. Here's a picture of her maybe "working a fallback position" next to the almost life-like Zuckerberg.

Dave Bowman
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CatWoman
(79,938 posts)global1
(26,096 posts)Thoughts of Boris & Natasha also were suggested. But this posted picture is what I thought was Natasha's.
Melania looked like a female spy in a James Bond movie.
magicarpet
(18,075 posts)moniss
(7,104 posts)dressing appropriately is and then she described it to someone. But they couldn't cut through the accent and so the designer just cut something out of cardboard and had it painted. Then the designer showed it to her and she pointed and nodded her head. Then he went to work with cloth and made the designs only to find out Melanie really meant she wanted to wear the cardboard creations.
3catwoman3
(26,547 posts)...lips? Yeesh!
spooky3
(37,375 posts)roomtomove
(240 posts)Cha
(309,903 posts)sinkingfeeling
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Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
(121,996 posts)That must be bugging him bigly.
LisaL
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still-prayin4rain
(286 posts)question everything
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usaf-vet
(7,467 posts).... hat while screaming at you while only inches from your face.
Apologies to all those who went to a boot camp where the "hat" was "cover."
Dale in Laurel MD
(772 posts)...if the hat was strategically chosen to make kissing impossible.
usaf-vet
(7,467 posts)It's not very classy for the occasion. Oh, wait. It's a Djt gathering. What was I thinking?
Cha
(309,903 posts)moniss
(7,104 posts)JustABozoOnThisBus
(24,088 posts)moniss
(7,104 posts)fiance is the masculine and fiancee is the feminine.
spooky3
(37,375 posts)As in the case of host/hostess, actor/actress, fiancé is used regardless of gender, per this source:
https://quillbot.com/blog/commonly-confused-words/fiance-vs-fiancee/
moniss
(7,104 posts)who is using it and what era they grew up in. It is similar to things like people who interchange the words fewer and less. They are not correct to do so but it is more and more accepted. There are other examples of course. I don't believe in changing from what one was properly taught unless there is a discrimination component to it. I don't see one in this case and so to me the idea that it needs to be made "neutral" is excessive and unnecessary. I believe the two forms I referenced describe a clear difference between two things.
spooky3
(37,375 posts)People are increasingly using fiance regardless of gender is to overcome sexism. People of all ages must learn to adapt to social change in reaction to unfairness. There is no such bias to overcome in the example you gave. People who do not understand the correct usage of fewer vs less may be many, and the language experts may or may not throw up their hands and give up trying to fight the misuse. But this is quite different from eliminating unnecessary gendered usage.
moniss
(7,104 posts)a label to something in a language that is misplaced when discussing language and how it works especially in things that cross from one language to another. For example there are feminine or masculine variations of words in Spanish. The words in question of fiance or fiancee aren't English language words anyway and are simply words that came over from French.
But some people go so far as to feel that even in pipe fittings that we should not describe things as male or female. Maybe we should change an entire industry and commonly understood terms and just use "innie and outie" or something. But when it comes to languages words can have masculine or feminine application and the intent of the person is where any malevolence in use resides not in the word itself. I don't see a harm in saying a host or hostess for example. If I am having a conversation about being served at a restaurant and I'm complimenting the experience from the time I walked in I feel being able to say that a hostess saw me to my seat and checked on me gives the person I'm speaking to an immediate understanding of the scene. I think it is clumsy and unnecessary for me to say a "female host" or "male host" attended my experience. It also eliminates someone in a conversation needing to ask if the "host" was a man or woman.
My feeling is that people can get carried away with supposedly "correcting" things where there is no discriminatory intent and actually is only a difference that they disagree with. I could find any number of instances in language where things could be changed but I don't because I discern whether the words have a derogatory intent or not.
GreatAuntK
(574 posts)The wife was cosplaying Zorro.
The Blue Flower
(5,800 posts)Creepy
Polly Hennessey
(7,814 posts)Baitball Blogger
(49,860 posts)drmeow
(5,555 posts)has attended a state event in a wildly inappropriate outfit. She acknowledged that the lace corset dress was perhaps inappropriate for a White House dinner but apparently didn't internalize the lesson. I guess when you snagged the billionaire by cheating with him on his wife, you have to make sure he's constantly reminded that you are "sexy." Classless.
question everything
(50,089 posts)Nixie
(17,609 posts)glance. Lauren always walks around like she shops at teen stores. She cheapens herself so much. Looks like she forgot her turtleneck under that suit.
Dulcinea
(8,266 posts)...and put a white band on it. I was also wondering if that's the outfit she's planning to wear to the Fascist Felon's funeral.
LeftInTX
(32,761 posts)Xoan
(25,502 posts)Of Lurch.
Liberal In Texas
(15,130 posts)Conjuay
(2,383 posts)She needs a bigger head or a ski cap underneath it.
Who wears a hat over her ears?
bdamomma
(68,063 posts)no class at all.