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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsJanuary 6 is a very bad day for me, but for two reasons, not one.
The first reason is that I was notified that morning in 2021 that both of my parents had died. They were both 96 years old. My father died of COVID-19, and my mother died from "complications of Alzheimers." I'm pretty sure she had COVID-19 as well, since the live-in caregiver they had also had COVID-19.
Then, while I was on the phone to a funeral home where they live, arranging to have them picked up and buried, I saw, unfolding on the TV, the heinous attack on the Capitol Building.
I spent the rest of the day dealing with stuff having to do with the death of my parents, while watching that insurrection happen. I wasn't going to be able to travel to California to deal with anything, so the next four months were spent on the phone and online with an attorney and others to administer their estate. At the same time, I was dealing with my disgust with the man who will now move into the White House for the second time.
Yes, January 6 is a date that will always signify heartbreak and anger for me. I'm feeling those two things all over again today. All I can do is keep busy and try to let the day pass.
Dennis Donovan
(27,879 posts)cachukis
(2,778 posts)malaise
(279,235 posts)mahina
(19,161 posts)Sending you aloha.
Quiet Em
(1,305 posts)I can't imagine the pain and sorrow of losing both parents on the same day.
MineralMan
(148,110 posts)Polybius
(18,587 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,903 posts)Sorry to hear about your parents.
Wild blueberry
(7,294 posts)I appreciate your sharing about your parents, as well as tips for us about serving as their executor and putting our affairs in order. Also listened to you about renewing my passport, which I've done. Thank you.
Sending a hug and extra kindness today.
Tumbulu
(6,460 posts)Oh my goodness, what a terrible day to re experience.
Tbear
(534 posts)I am sorry you had that put on you and how difficult it was.
And now the memories on a day we cant afford to forget.
Thank you for your presence here on DU.