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Ohioboy

(3,552 posts)
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 06:20 AM Jan 5

He got more offended after I apologized for offending him

Had a weird conversation with a Magat. During the conversation I said something that upset him. So, I apologized that I had "offended" him.
He spent the next ten minutes angerly insisting that he never gets "offended". It was very strange. He wanted me to know he wasn't like the "Liberals" who get "offended by everything". It was like I had called him a sow boy or something. He totally equated being offended with being weak.
Very strange how some people think.

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He got more offended after I apologized for offending him (Original Post) Ohioboy Jan 5 OP
They don't have the ability to reason things out... Think. Again. Jan 5 #1
LOL!!!! Skittles Jan 5 #2
That's right Seinan Sensei Jan 5 #8
Next time say 'I'm sorry I hurt your feelings' C_U_L8R Jan 5 #3
My go-to is... FuzzyDicePHL Jan 5 #7
Even better -- sorry I hurt your fee-fees. unblock Jan 5 #24
"oh, i'm sorry again. rampartd Jan 5 #4
neither viewpoint is without merit in my view Tetrachloride Jan 5 #5
If they're Magats, fuck 'em. Paladin Jan 5 #12
Weird Emile Jan 5 #6
I think you meant "soy boy." GoCubsGo Jan 5 #9
No, they just love to argue!🫠🫤😜 True Blue American Jan 5 #14
Soy? True Blue American Jan 5 #15
The guys they call soy boy are often attractive JI7 Jan 5 #34
Yeah, I mostly see them use it on men who don't condone violence. GoCubsGo Jan 5 #38
MAGAts are in the The Wizard Jan 5 #10
Maggot? Think? 3Hotdogs Jan 5 #11
I have those conversations, especially when I ask, " Why are we arguing.?" True Blue American Jan 5 #13
They may see themselves as warriors or fierce wolves Attilatheblond Jan 5 #23
So, what was the purpose of the conversation? Kaleva Jan 5 #16
Good to know. I'll toss in, "I can see I have triggered you and that was not my intent" Scrivener7 Jan 5 #17
That would be hilarious! yardwork Jan 5 #26
I'm kind of looking forward to it. Scrivener7 Jan 5 #37
dont you just love the way they backpedal and go sputter sputt sputt? AllaN01Bear Jan 5 #18
You should have apologized for triggering him. Crunchy Frog Jan 5 #19
I would only say, " you look triggered". But never apologize, ever. Meadowoak Jan 5 #29
What a sad existence it must be bif Jan 5 #20
Of as we used to say in high school... bif Jan 5 #21
So, their disassociation with reality extends to being unaware of their own feelings, reactions, and actions? Attilatheblond Jan 5 #22
It's all about the fear of weakness. yardwork Jan 5 #25
I never back down to them, ever, and they always run like a scared little girl. Meadowoak Jan 5 #30
Butthurt snow-flakery is the technical term for that behavior wolfie001 Jan 5 #27
Alpha macho MAGA Meatheads don't get offended,... magicarpet Jan 5 #28
I offend the shit out of them, every chance I get. And when they see that Meadowoak Jan 5 #31
Even better when there's a crowd of people, laughing at them. Meadowoak Jan 5 #32
This is why I say we need to learn to not react or let them get to us JI7 Jan 5 #33
Projection. "He that smelt it dealt it" usonian Jan 5 #35
Tell him to go fuck himself after he pries his lips from Trump's festering asshole Orrex Jan 5 #36

Think. Again.

(20,131 posts)
1. They don't have the ability to reason things out...
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 06:25 AM
Jan 5

...or they wouldn't be magats in the first place.

Skittles

(160,873 posts)
2. LOL!!!!
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 06:29 AM
Jan 5

just RECENTLY, MAGAts have been offended by: vaccines, science, CRT, FACTS, trans folk, WOKE, immigrants, BOOKS, etc...........

Seinan Sensei

(782 posts)
8. That's right
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 08:09 AM
Jan 5

Living in the real world requires resilience. Maturity allows for the possibility that someone else could be right. Or that both people could be right.
Remember the allegory of the blind men and the elephant?
Resilience allows one to bend. Rigidly causes one to break.
(PS - this very concept will cause MAGAts’ heads to explode)
………..

Tetrachloride

(8,522 posts)
5. neither viewpoint is without merit in my view
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 07:20 AM
Jan 5

therefore i believe the accurate nuance is not yet found. i believe the answer is not inherently related to politics

each view had a motivation that was strong enough to emerge from silence to conversation.

i would ask what is the motivation

GoCubsGo

(33,327 posts)
9. I think you meant "soy boy."
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 08:13 AM
Jan 5

It's one of their favorite pejoratives when it comes to liberal men, frequently followed up with the word "cuck." (Oh, the irony in that one!) Because, supposedly, liberal men eat a lot of soy products, which allegedly feminizes them , so therefore they are weak. This is the kind of shit guys like Joe Rogan have been feeding to them for years.

It sounds to me like this guy was having reality dawn on him, and he was trying to rationalize his way out of it. He's in for a really rude awakening...

True Blue American

(18,285 posts)
15. Soy?
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 09:05 AM
Jan 5

Thank goodness no one likes the stuff in my family!
Ohio grows a lot but they ship it to China and empty auto trains.

JI7

(91,117 posts)
34. The guys they call soy boy are often attractive
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 11:35 AM
Jan 5

or what many women find attractive. When these "soy boys" are with an attractive women they will make comments about whether they share their outfits or something else stupid.

They have no idea how much of a turnoff the caveman act is. Even if you remove any political views from everything. The "tough" guy just comes off as insecure and like a buffoon.

GoCubsGo

(33,327 posts)
38. Yeah, I mostly see them use it on men who don't condone violence.
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 12:33 PM
Jan 5

Regardless of their age or what they look like. It's the whole "caveman" thing. But, in the media I tend to visit, the ones with known liberal views seem to get "soy boy" hurled at them the most--even the ones who are middle-aged, and married with children. It's really pathetic, if you ask me. Bunch of Joe Rogan wannabes, and he's one of the biggest buffoons of all.

True Blue American

(18,285 posts)
13. I have those conversations, especially when I ask, " Why are we arguing.?"
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 09:01 AM
Jan 5

Then have to listen to 5 minutes being told,” we are not arguing while I listen to the same story over again why we are not arguing!

Attilatheblond

(4,880 posts)
23. They may see themselves as warriors or fierce wolves
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 09:31 AM
Jan 5

But they behave like ungulates with their constant ruminating to occupy their minds instead of doing any independent critical thinking. Oh, and they certainly engage in herd prey animal behavior. Do NOT stand nearby when their herd panics and mindlessly stampedes. They always sense danger, perhaps rightly, but never stop to actually look to the real source of the threats to their well being. Example: November 6, 2024.

Scrivener7

(53,574 posts)
17. Good to know. I'll toss in, "I can see I have triggered you and that was not my intent"
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 09:12 AM
Jan 5

to all my conversations with magats from now on.

Meadowoak

(6,334 posts)
29. I would only say, " you look triggered". But never apologize, ever.
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 11:19 AM
Jan 5

If you apologize, which is something they would NEVER do, they think they won.

Attilatheblond

(4,880 posts)
22. So, their disassociation with reality extends to being unaware of their own feelings, reactions, and actions?
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 09:22 AM
Jan 5

Figures.

magicarpet

(17,322 posts)
28. Alpha macho MAGA Meatheads don't get offended,...
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 10:15 AM
Jan 5

.... they seek retribution and totally vanquish and humiliate their enemies then wipe them off the face of the earth.

Meadowoak

(6,334 posts)
31. I offend the shit out of them, every chance I get. And when they see that
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 11:24 AM
Jan 5

You won't back down, they run like a little bitch, it's delightful to see a big macho asshole run like a little girl.

JI7

(91,117 posts)
33. This is why I say we need to learn to not react or let them get to us
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 11:28 AM
Jan 5

and we can have fun going after them in "soft" ways like you did.

Never try to debate them. Just come across as being personally happy and not letting them get to you and that will alsoi set them off.

usonian

(15,247 posts)
35. Projection. "He that smelt it dealt it"
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 11:55 AM
Jan 5

More politely, " Every accusation is a confession"

Cult. Ignore. They are living in a Matrix programmed by anarchitects.

They may hit a wall, as when Canada defeats the US and they are forced to eat back bacon and speak French.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100219867240

Example:
When a US invasion of Canada failed.

Orrex

(64,472 posts)
36. Tell him to go fuck himself after he pries his lips from Trump's festering asshole
Sun Jan 5, 2025, 12:00 PM
Jan 5

That won't offend him either.

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