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Yavin4

(36,714 posts)
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 06:47 PM Thursday

I am done with stupid people. Just done.

My New Year's resolution is to avoid stupid people at all costs. If that means that I have to live like a hermit, so be it. I'm not watching cable news. I'm not watching comedy shows that make fun of cable news. I'm not watching Trump nor any other Republican. I'm not watching MAGA podcasts, not following MAGA Twitter, not watching MAGA YouTube videos.

I do BlueSky. I do DU. I watch streaming TV shows, and most importantly, I study. I just want to spend the rest of my life learning, and I want to spend my time with people who value learning and understanding.

Learning makes the stupid go away.

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I am done with stupid people. Just done. (Original Post) Yavin4 Thursday OP
May Reason Rule Where Delusion Dwells MayReasonRule Thursday #1
A prayer for the ages. enough Thursday #21
This message was self-deleted by its author MayReasonRule Saturday #64
Although I'm Not One To Pray... I Wholeheartedly Agree With Your Sentiment... MayReasonRule Saturday #65
They are very hard to avoid. Ocelot II Thursday #2
Oh lordy Katcat Thursday #4
" bug me ", pun intended? DontBelieveEastisEas Thursday #19
Plus the unpredictable reactions to 🕷 bites... yorkster Thursday #35
if it's any consolation, Conjuay Friday #45
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Thursday #3
Done With Stupid rondawson Thursday #5
Zappa had a interesting take on it DoBW Thursday #6
Reminds me of a couple of Einstein quotes regarding stupidity. Borogove Thursday #11
And I absolutely love THESE quotes, too! calimary Thursday #18
Truth....nt DoBW Thursday #33
I LOVE this quote! calimary Thursday #16
dressed up ... DoBW Thursday #34
I used to think he was kinda funny-looking. calimary Friday #40
A touch of Sam Elliott about him... 3catwoman3 Friday #41
Many Agree With You? Roy Rolling Friday #44
I am feeling keepthemhonestO Thursday #7
I"m with you! PJMcK Thursday #8
I feel like I could have written the same post. Bob in the Land Thursday #9
Another lost relationship PJMcK Thursday #10
PJMcK................. Upthevibe Thursday #17
Quite soon I'll be there, too PJMcK Thursday #32
i'm gonna disagree with your last line orleans Thursday #12
Unfortunately they are not done with you. Sneederbunk Thursday #13
Fair warning DeepWinter Thursday #14
I have been done with stupid people for as long as I can remember. Aristus Thursday #15
Well said, Aristus. 3catwoman3 Friday #42
I've always felt lavoosh99 Friday #54
Noble sentiments JCMach1 Thursday #20
Before you write off YouTube videos, watch this one on the "5 Laws of Stupidity," please. It'll give dobleremolque Thursday #22
Interesting, but... Morbius Thursday #31
Good Old Dunning Kruger! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Thursday #38
Interesting intrepidity Thursday #36
Thanks. 👀 checking it out later underpants Friday #53
Salud! ZDU Thursday #23
Avoid stupid people at all costs? LilElf70 Thursday #24
There's several DownriverDem Thursday #25
I'm done with the Magats. Some people are dumb but not that dumb. Dave Bowman Thursday #26
Are you at all concerned about getting Unladen Swallow Thursday #27
Well, yet another person won't deal with me. And that includes my wife. Wonder Why Thursday #28
I am a carbon copy beyondtimes Thursday #29
good luck not having to deal with these people. It isn't possible IMHO Groundhawg Thursday #30
No, you're not. It's not possible to be completely done with them. dchill Thursday #37
Me too Figarosmom Thursday #39
I realized that I am a misanthrope 2 years ago. BigmanPigman Friday #43
What's the definition of stupid people? PennRalphie Friday #46
Red hats with MAGA on them provides a big clue Yavin4 Friday #48
If you're not going anywhere PennRalphie Friday #49
Me too. mgardener Friday #47
Sad that the stupid may doom the human race.. Permanut Friday #50
Meme from The Sixth Sense: yagotme Friday #51
Sorry. You live in America maxsolomon Friday #52
Not me. They will not stop hearing from me for the next 4 years, whether in person or online. SunSeeker Friday #55
Just had an interaction with a MAGA christian. Swede Friday #56
Make sure you have a good unlimited data plan... Montauk6 Friday #57
I'll just strap on my headphones and listen to a podcast. Yavin4 Friday #58
From Sir Terry Pratchett GoneOffShore Friday #59
Avoid stupid people The Wizard Friday #60
Against stupidity, even the gods themselves fight in vain. -- Friedrich Schiller alterfurz Friday #61
Stupid people YoshidaYui Friday #62
For at least the last ten years my New Year's resolution has been to OMGWTF Friday #63
I dunno OP ThePartyThatListens Saturday #66

Response to enough (Reply #21)

MayReasonRule

(1,947 posts)
65. Although I'm Not One To Pray... I Wholeheartedly Agree With Your Sentiment...
Sat Jan 4, 2025, 08:12 PM
Saturday


Happy Saturday y'all!

Ocelot II

(121,732 posts)
2. They are very hard to avoid.
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 06:58 PM
Thursday

It is said that no matter where you are in the world, you are never more than six feet away from a spider. Stupid people are more noticeable (and more pernicious) than spiders, but no matter where you are in the world, there's a stupid person somewhere nearby, either physically or virtually, who's prepared to make your life unpleasant. I'll take spiders, thank you very much.

Katcat

(382 posts)
4. Oh lordy
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:16 PM
Thursday

I gave you a rec for that but dang, I hate spiders! All those legs and hairy spots bug me and I don’t know why.

Conjuay

(2,202 posts)
45. if it's any consolation,
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 08:58 AM
Friday

bugs outnumber us; there are trillions of them. So DON’T get them angry!

Response to Yavin4 (Original post)

DoBW

(2,139 posts)
6. Zappa had a interesting take on it
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:31 PM
Thursday

"Some scientists claim that hydrogen, because it is so plentiful, is the basic building block of the universe. I dispute that. I say there is more stupidity than hydrogen, and that is the basic building block of the universe."
-- Frank Zappa

Borogove

(82 posts)
11. Reminds me of a couple of Einstein quotes regarding stupidity.
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:59 PM
Thursday

“The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has limits.”

“Only two things are infinite - the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the universe.”

calimary

(84,752 posts)
18. And I absolutely love THESE quotes, too!
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 08:16 PM
Thursday

I collect quotes and use one of ‘em at the start of our Indivisible group’s weekly Call to Action email. That’s gonna start cranking back up again this weekend.


Einstein quotes regarding stupidity. Keepers For SURE:
“The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has limits.”

“Only two things are infinite - the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the universe.”

calimary

(84,752 posts)
16. I LOVE this quote!
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 08:11 PM
Thursday

Keeping it!!!

"Some scientists claim that hydrogen, because it is so plentiful, is the basic building block of the universe. I dispute that. I say there is more stupidity than hydrogen, and that is the basic building block of the universe."
-- Frank Zappa

Just another reason to find Frank Zappa utterly fascinating.

calimary

(84,752 posts)
40. I used to think he was kinda funny-looking.
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 12:06 AM
Friday

But this photo shows he was actually rawther handsome.

keepthemhonestO

(459 posts)
7. I am feeling
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:36 PM
Thursday

This also.

I thought I would pop up and have some small talk and ask how they were all doing this week and there is a new girl up there. The new girl seemed so sweet, friendly enough but out of the blue asked me do I believe in global warming and I was like oh yes of course. I thought maybe being middle age white girl that maybe I looked like the type that believed that maga crap. However she went on to say that she believes this is just natural phase the the earth goes through.

We moved on from that conversation quickly somehow we got on to cars and one of the girls was talking about how she got pulled over for not having insurance or it had lapsed or something. The new girl goes oh good reminder I better go get my car insurance. Basically she's just driving around with out insurance waiting to be arrested. I mean I just don't know what to do with people, I can't deal. This is why I can't do small talk. 🤪

We have all these people going down these rabbit holes of flat Earth and whatever conspiracy theories they think it's real and I don't I just don't know what to do,what a world. 🤦

PJMcK

(23,117 posts)
8. I"m with you!
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:44 PM
Thursday

We gave up on network news decades ago and now cable goes in the ash can. They were all wrong and why pay for crap?

Print media? My decades long favorite, The New York Times is dead to me. Same for WaPo and LA Times.

In the past week, I've decided to abandon three friends I've known a long time because of their support for Trump. Because they live in an alternate reality, we have no commonality so there's no point in trying to relate to one another. Simply put, fuck 'em.

We're looking at opportunities in other countries since the re-ascendence of Trump-- and other authoritarians around the world-- signals troubled times ahead. There is an historical example a mere 90 years ago.

The diminishment of public education has dumbed-down several generations of Americans to the point that far too many people lack critical thinking skills. They don't have a civics knowledge of how our governments work. Many were raised in some level privilege by so-called helicopter parents and have developed a laissez-faire perspective of our country. This is one of the profound effects of Republican efforts to mess up public education. The Founding Fathers knew that an educated public was necessary for a functional democracy. After all, if you don't know about your leaders, how can you choose them?

Meanwhile, I've always loved your screen name. Wetyin's Colony might be a swell place to retire to.

Bob in the Land

(49 posts)
9. I feel like I could have written the same post.
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:44 PM
Thursday

I don’t have enough years left to deal with stupid.

PJMcK

(23,117 posts)
10. Another lost relationship
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:52 PM
Thursday

After I posted above, I realized I'm done with my cousin and her husband. They are the archetypal MAGA stupids and I just cannot look at them in any way without contempt. They will be among the most hurt by Trump and Project 2025 but because of their ignorance, they'll never see it coming. Then they'll blame Democrats because they're idiots.

orleans

(35,355 posts)
12. i'm gonna disagree with your last line
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 07:59 PM
Thursday

learning does not make the stupid go away -- you might get smarter but they will still be there

(unless you meant that when people learn it makes their own stupid go away... b/c they're learning

DeepWinter

(637 posts)
14. Fair warning
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 08:09 PM
Thursday

BlueSky has it's MAGA groups building in numbers.

Upside - They are quick to ban.

Downside - I've seen them ban everyone violating the TOS. Left, right, center. Maybe not a bad thing. Obey the TOS.

Aristus

(68,723 posts)
15. I have been done with stupid people for as long as I can remember.
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 08:11 PM
Thursday

I was pretty young when I realized I was a thinking person on a planet overpopulated with brainless meat puppets who screw up everything with their fecklessness and corrosive idiocy.

lavoosh99

(14 posts)
54. I've always felt
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 12:10 PM
Friday

I was a precocious child in a world full of naked emperors. Lately it seems we (DUers, progressives, liberals) are corks of sanity floating in a sea of lunatics.

dobleremolque

(928 posts)
22. Before you write off YouTube videos, watch this one on the "5 Laws of Stupidity," please. It'll give
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 08:54 PM
Thursday

you some new tools to reveal who the stupid really are.

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Morbius

(136 posts)
31. Interesting, but...
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:16 PM
Thursday

Last edited Thu Jan 2, 2025, 10:48 PM - Edit history (1)

I've always thought that stupidity is contagious, and that no one can claim immunity. I may not be an inherently stupid person, but that doesn't mean I'm not stupid sometimes. On the other hand, I have noticed that really, really stupid people think they're really, really smart. Which scares me, a little.








Edited for spelling. See? Stupidity reigns.

intrepidity

(7,937 posts)
36. Interesting
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:40 PM
Thursday

Nearly all magats qualify: harm to themselves plus harm to others (lose-lose).

Trump nearly qualifies, but he's got just enough self-interest to be also classified as a bandit (win-lose).

This world needs more win-win people, my favorite kind.

LilElf70

(591 posts)
24. Avoid stupid people at all costs?
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:02 PM
Thursday

Sheeeeeeet... Dat's a full time job all by itself. I see them every day.

DownriverDem

(6,699 posts)
25. There's several
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:05 PM
Thursday

left leaning broadcasters on YouTube (free one). You can subscribe to them so they come up. I like MeidasTouch among others.

Unladen Swallow

(371 posts)
27. Are you at all concerned about getting
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:07 PM
Thursday

curated information that is too one-sided, and potentially missing out on something? That's a big fear of mine. I like to read and look at things from as many sides as possible.

Wonder Why

(4,788 posts)
28. Well, yet another person won't deal with me. And that includes my wife.
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:08 PM
Thursday


But, hey, we've been married 52+ years and I can't remember which one she is anyway.

So losing my best friend, Yavin4, won't bother me.

beyondtimes

(3 posts)
29. I am a carbon copy
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:11 PM
Thursday

of your changes in lifestyle. No cable news. No videos of Tump or his maga cult. NO NO audio of his mentally deranged voice spewing nonsensical word salad. I just do you tube videos of my favorite democratic pundits and democratic underground. Until 2029!!!!

dchill

(40,845 posts)
37. No, you're not. It's not possible to be completely done with them.
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 09:40 PM
Thursday

No matter what you do, at least one of them will track you down!

Figarosmom

(3,600 posts)
39. Me too
Thu Jan 2, 2025, 11:19 PM
Thursday

That's what I've been doing since the election. Maybe I'll even start drawing and painting again even though I can't see. Monet did.

BigmanPigman

(52,383 posts)
43. I realized that I am a misanthrope 2 years ago.
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 02:15 AM
Friday

Recently I re-watched the film There Will Be Blood. The main character explained that his goal of becoming enormously wealthy was so he could build a house and live alone and away from all humans. He said he'd rather be left alone since he had learned to hate people over the years through his life's experiences.

Ditto!

PennRalphie

(344 posts)
46. What's the definition of stupid people?
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 09:18 AM
Friday

Choosing to not visit a website with content you know you won’t like is easy. So is avoiding news that you know will anger or depress you.

What about other people that you know you must interact with in life? How do you determine their intelligence? Do you quiz your doctor’s receptionist? Or the cashier at your local grocery store? The person processing your property tax payments?

Permanent isolation that’s being chosen to avoid “stupid people” can’t be healthy.

I hope you find the comfort you seek.


PennRalphie

(344 posts)
49. If you're not going anywhere
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 11:32 AM
Friday

You can’t see red hats.

Like many here, you’re refusing to associate with anyone with a different political belief. Certainly your choice. I’ve read thread after thread after thread of DU’ers bragging about disowning family and ending life long friendships over politics.

What’s the strategy to get them to your side in the future? After disowning and ending friendships, you’re going to “hope” they see the error of their vote and come crawling back to your side? I highly doubt that happens.

Before this election, I was posting about VP Harris strategy in PA. The economy here is booming. Not one ad about that. In fact, the opposite. The message was I know the economy is bad, I’ll fix it.

The strategy of the Democratic Party and those of you who refuse to associate with anyone who doesn’t agree with you is going to work in 26 and 28?

By then, you might be, as you claim, a hermit. With no way to affect the vote of any of the “stupid people”.

Good luck.

Permanut

(6,733 posts)
50. Sad that the stupid may doom the human race..
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 11:33 AM
Friday

Maybe the cockroaches will treat the planet better when they take over.

I'd like to come back to Earth for a visit 10,000 years from now just to see what happened.

yagotme

(3,997 posts)
51. Meme from The Sixth Sense:
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 11:39 AM
Friday

"I see stupid people. And they don't even know they're stupid."

Line from "Riddick":

"Is it true that 1/2 of the people you meet, are below average intelligence?"

SunSeeker

(54,160 posts)
55. Not me. They will not stop hearing from me for the next 4 years, whether in person or online.
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 01:50 PM
Friday

I will constantly remind them how much they've been had by their Orange King.

Swede

(34,934 posts)
56. Just had an interaction with a MAGA christian.
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 02:02 PM
Friday

It was about Noah's Ark. I posted how long did it take for the penguins take to walk to the middle east for the grand tour? Also, did no one else have boats?

He goes, there was no winter back then. Read a book I post. Then he goes "How can anyone survive on a boat for 300 days?" I post back "Exactly!"

Stupid is, as stupid does.

Montauk6

(8,783 posts)
57. Make sure you have a good unlimited data plan...
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 02:10 PM
Friday

Your phone will be a good savior when the waiting room, airport, gym, etc. are blasting Fox News.

Yavin4

(36,714 posts)
58. I'll just strap on my headphones and listen to a podcast.
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 02:34 PM
Friday

I don't even turn on my TV for most of the day.

GoneOffShore

(17,655 posts)
59. From Sir Terry Pratchett
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 03:01 PM
Friday
.....Polly decided that she knew enough to be going on with. ‘The enemy wasn't men, or women, or the old, or even the dead. It was bleedin' stupid people, who came in all varieties. And no one had the right to be stupid.'

Sir Terry Pratchett - Monstrous Regiment

alterfurz

(2,570 posts)
61. Against stupidity, even the gods themselves fight in vain. -- Friedrich Schiller
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 03:43 PM
Friday

Stupidity is the same as evil if you judge by the results. -- Margaret Atwood

OMGWTF

(4,498 posts)
63. For at least the last ten years my New Year's resolution has been to
Fri Jan 3, 2025, 06:27 PM
Friday

keep idiots and assh0les out of my life. It is glorious to only associate with smart, kind people. I recommend that everyone do that.

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